The past three weeks have been so busy I can barely remember where to start... I'll go in order, but three weeks ago feels like a VERY long time since so much has happened. We left for the north and after a delayed start (CGE runs on a different time zone, its late even compared to Africa time...which is even later than Jewish time!) we were dropped off with our homestay families on their farms. They threw me out of the car with a first aid kit, a malaria net, and some food and before I knew what had happened I was alone with a new family, no electricity, or running water, staying for a week with them in their dung hut. Needless to say I was totally freaked out-not to mention the language difference. After four crash courses in Damara (a click language) I felt entirely unprepared for even saying hello nonetheless having a meaningful conversation.But by the end of the week I became fluent enough for
-Hello
-Hi How are you
-I'm good, you?
-Good, thank you!
haha, But to say fluent even for this would be a stretch because Iwould often respond to hello with "I'm fine, and you?" I guess clicklanguages are just not my forte-which isn not surprising considering Spanish is difficult for me. So, anyway life in rural Namibia was quite different than anything I expected. My host family shared their one bedroom hut with me- The mom and youngest son in one cot, me in the other- the other two kids were at school in town all week and did not come home until my last night there.The farm I stayed on is a government (communal) farm, so there were several other farm houses in walking distance that were housing my classmates. Most of the families had vegetable gardens, and livestock and or relatives working in the city. My hosts didn't have livestock on their immediate property but they did have some staying elsewhere on the farm. As for the gardens, those who don't already have them are reluctant to start them because their farm has been frequented by a herd of elephants recently and they have been destroying the gardens as well as property (and killing
people!). This tidbit was kindly shared with me before I ventured out to the "toilet" for the first time (as in before I left to take a walk, hop the fence, and pee in the bush as it is called here).
However, no elephants while I was visiting. Anyway, Life on the Farm: We woke up and started a fire, while water was boiling for tea and coffee I went out back to the tap and washed up. Then we had breakfast sitting around the fire. After breakfast we hung around a bit, then visited with other families on the farm and relatives. One day we got to go milk the cows, another I got to go play with baby goats. Then we would cook lunch over the fire and eat outside. After lunch is nap time til about 4 because it is too hot to think, and its practically too hot to breathe. So we just sit around in the shade and nap (it is also too hot to be inside the house because the roof is tin which makes it hotter) Then after the heat lessens a bit back to hanging out with the others, taking donkey cart rides, and walking around the farm. Then its dinner around the fire again, a bit of chatting til dark, and then to bed around 8- reading by the candle til 9 and going to sleep (or for me: Covering myself in bug spray and wrestling with my mosquito net for hours on end)
Clearly, life on the farm was very different from anything I've ever experienced before. It was much slower and more relaxed. I really had no sense of time at all, everyone just walks over and meets up instead of picking definite times for getting together. I enjoyed having the free time, and had some interesting political discussions with my mostly Herero and Damara hosts about the predominantly Oshivambo government and upcoming elections. It was difficult to adjust to the different pace of life as well as different culture and attitudes towards parenting and care for animals. But in the end I had a lot of fun, and learned a lot!